Parent - Teacher Dialogue

It's been a while since I posted -__-; It's hard connecting here, 'coz of the earthquake thing in Taiwan. I hope the internet here in the Philippines gets fixed already. It's hard surfing nowadays.

Well, today
is the Parent - Teacher Dialogue thing in our school. Where they give away the cards that have your grade in them. Hmm... my grades became lower... Especially A.P., or Social Studies in other schools. Other grades stayed the same though. But what really ticked me off was, when my uncle got mad at me. -_____-;; He got mad because 5 subjects got lowered. And yes, 3 of thos got lowered by 1 point. Yes, 1 point. And the other one got lowered by 2 or 3. And my A.P. grade got lowered by 5. I told him that EVERYONE'S grades got lowered in A.P., but noooooooo. He said "Eh anu naman kung bumaba yung iba?". Ugh, can't he understand that? I'm not super smart. Anu yun, lahat bumaba, except ako? Wow naman ang smart ko talaga... -_____-;;; And you know what? He repeated the phrase "Hindi nag-aaral", 10 - 20 times. Wow, he must think I NEVER EVER study. Just because my grades got lowered by mostly 1 - 2 points. And not even all.
He even said that I NEVER pass my homeworks. As if he knows what happens. -____-;; God, he also told me that he'll e-mail my grades to my mother. I don't care if he sends it. I know that my mother is MUCH MORE understanding than he is. I bet he'll e-mail it with no explanation whatsoever. And by the way, my general average STAYED THE SAME. My math grade increased by 5 points. I asked them, why do they only notice the bad things in my report card.

"Bakit yung mga bumaba lang mga tinignan niyo? E, pareho lang ang general average ko , meaning, may mga bumaba nga, pero may tumaas din!"

Reply nila:

"Ha?"

I remember reading a book about raising kids and teenagers. There was a scenario where a kid/teen did the laundry and other things.

A. Scenario 1:

"Mom! Mom! I did the laundry!"
"Did you dry and fold them?"
"..."

"Mom! I also made dinner while you were gone!"
"Did you set the table up and served them?"
"..."

B. Scenario 2:

"Mom! Mom! I did the laundry!
"Good job!"

"Mom! I also made dinner while you were gone!"
"Wow! I'm so proud of you!"

Be the judge of which one is better parenting.

Well, I think I'll be adding one of those comment thingies on the side. XD Still far from done with my blog. 'Til next time~


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